ok, im very new to GIT but i got C&C Generals working, and i know that was a tuff game to get going.
i followed a previous post that seemed to work. First off we created our lans to be of the same subnet. for example, choose 192.168.0.x or 192.168.1.xxx either way... if one persons is different committ to changing to your friends subnet.
next you will need to port forward the GIT port - thats it (at least for me). then all the packets that need to be sent will go through that port. so log into your router and port forward to the machine that is running GIT.
as far as the config goes. I put my friends IP and used 213 udp (default) to connet.
here was my post:
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then the advance config, i check ONLY this boxes.
Ether II
Forward ARP
TCP, UDP, ICMP
Also match source port
everything else is unchecked. (note: im doing this all from memory as im at work.)
then once git is running you should be able to ping your friends machine if it is setup properly. if that works, then u should be good. just remember to put in the games ports in the config sections as i dont know what they are.