Hi all
I have been trying to get this working for ages with my m8. He has a miny network with a domain controler. His server has the internet connection on it and it then shares though to his machine.
We where having the exact same issue with BFME as I could see his progress bar going up but he could not see mine. Also time outs when trying to join the room.
The only way around it and I must say WE DID GET IT WORKING. At first he was VPN'ing to me but we had the problrem above. It was like he couldnt see me properly in the lobby.
Anyway I VPN'ed to HIM and made sure I could ping his hostname (which I couldn't) but i could ping his IP address on the LAN.
So I added his IP into my hosts file to resolve to the correct name. Fired up the game using GIT for UDP on the ports needed for BFME and went to the lobby - no time out when i joined his game and then we both saw the progress bars going up!
It worked! we had a good game :)
Doubt this wil help with routers but he has got NAT and we worked around it.
Great program btw - thanks to the creator.
EDIT - this is with the standard version NOT THE BETA
EDIT 2 - I am direct connection to the I-net